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Item specifics
- Condition
- Publication Date
- 2015-09-08
- Pages
- 168
- ISBN
- 9781627781473
- Book Title
- Designer Relationships : A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships
- Publisher
- Start Publishing LLC
- Item Length
- 8 in
- Publication Year
- 2015
- Format
- Trade Paperback
- Language
- English
- Item Height
- 0.5 in
- Genre
- Family & Relationships, Body, Mind & Spirit, Health & Fitness
- Topic
- Love & Romance, Sexuality, General, Sacred Sexuality
- Item Weight
- 6.8 Oz
- Item Width
- 5 in
- Number of Pages
- 168 Pages
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Publisher
Start Publishing LLC
ISBN-10
1627781471
ISBN-13
9781627781473
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208606905
Product Key Features
Book Title
Designer Relationships : A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships
Number of Pages
168 Pages
Language
English
Publication Year
2015
Topic
Love & Romance, Sexuality, General, Sacred Sexuality
Genre
Family & Relationships, Body, Mind & Spirit, Health & Fitness
Format
Trade Paperback
Dimensions
Item Height
0.5 in
Item Weight
6.8 Oz
Item Length
8 in
Item Width
5 in
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Intended Audience
Trade
LCCN
2017-279720
Reviews
"Michaels and Johnson's latest book on Designer Relationships takes my book, The New Monogamy one step further, past communication skills about monogamy agreements and into new ways to be transparent about all types of revolutionary forms of commitment that will take us forward into the 21st Century. Where my book left off, theirs continues and includes all the information any couple could ever want or need to create loving, open partnerships. Where most books only offer history and data, Mark and Patricia give practical advice and ground rules for trust, empathy and intimacy for collaborative non-monogamous relationship. We all need a book like this that integrates good tips and techniques and the words to define what we want from a partner; the freedom to choose. Whatever you are looking for, it is in this book. Written by a couple who really love one another and are committed to their work, this book comes at the perfect time, I am convinced it will help a lot of people." -Dr. Tammy Nelson, Author of The New Monogamy and Getting the Sex You Want "Thoughtful, honest and powerful! Reading this book is like rubbing a lamp to get your own Genie - but instead of magic, you'll get practical guidance on how to create the relationship that's ideal for you. Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson speak from experience, lead from the heart, and open a space for true sexual freedom." -- Ricci Joy Levy, Executive Director, The Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance "Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels explore far beyond one-size-fits-all coupling to a rainbow of choices, showing us all that the only ways our relationships are supposed to be are the ways we choose with one beautifully stated guideline: "Keep kindness as your touchstone."" -- Dossie Easton, Author of The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy. "How would you live and love if society, religion, and the media weren't constantly "shoulding" all over you?" -- Jenny Block " Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson is an insightful read into the different types of sexual and romantic relationships, It debunks the myths that tell us there is one type that works for everyone. It also imparts wisdom on how to navigate relationships for whichever type you find yourself in. I found this book to be a great starter guide for designing relationships that work for you." -Dr. Martha Tara Lee, author of Love, Sex and Everything In Between "I would highly recommend Designer Relationships to any couple who wants to explore opening up and wants to strengthen their relationship." -Shervon Laurice, MS, LCPC, LPC From the foreword: " Designer Relationships is a guidebook for these changing times and what is now available to anyone with a computer, a modicum of curiosity, and the willingness to take a risk and explore." -Ken Haslam, founder, Polyamory Archives of the Kinsey Institute, From the foreword: "We are living in an era of major change in terms of how we practice sex, love, and relationship. Thanks to the Internet, whole communities now exist that honor a variety of non-monogamous relationship structures––polyamory, swinging, and other alternative arrangements. Finding people and places to explore this wide variety of sexual and romantic options can now be done with ease, something that was hard to imagine a few decades ago. The novel 50 Shades of Grey has led millions into a consideration of adding kink and BDSM into their intimate repertoire. Marriages have been failing at about a 50% rate for many years. Many older people find themselves suddenly single, due to divorce or the death of a partner, in a cyber world of online dating and a social acceptance of a new sexuality that is light years away from how they grew up. Many younger people, who may have been raised by divorced parents, are actively seeking healthier alternatives. Times are changing. Designer Relationships is a guidebook for these changing times and what is now available to anyone with a computer, a modicum of curiosity, and the willingness to take a risk and explore." –Ken Haslam, founder Polyamory Archives of the Kinesy Institute, "Michaels and Johnson's latest book on Designer Relationships takes my book, The New Monogamy one step further, past communication skills about monogamy agreements and into new ways to be transparent about all types of revolutionary forms of commitment that will take us forward into the 21st Century. Where my book left off, theirs continues and includes all the information any couple could ever want or need to create loving, open partnerships. Where most books only offer history and data, Mark and Patricia give practical advice and ground rules for trust, empathy and intimacy for collaborative non-monogamous relationship. We all need a book like this that integrates good tips and techniques and the words to define what we want from a partner; the freedom to choose. Whatever you are looking for, it is in this book. Written by a couple who really love one another and are committed to their work, this book comes at the perfect time, I am convinced it will help a lot of people." -Dr. Tammy Nelson, Author of The New Monogamy and Getting the Sex You Want "Thoughtful, honest and powerful! Reading this book is like rubbing a lamp to get your own Genie - but instead of magic, you'll get practical guidance on how to create the relationship that's ideal for you. Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson speak from experience, lead from the heart, and open a space for true sexual freedom." -- Ricci Joy Levy, Executive Director, The Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance "Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels explore far beyond one-size-fits-all coupling to a rainbow of choices, showing us all that the only ways our relationships are supposed to be are the ways we choose with one beautifully stated guideline: "Keep kindness as your touchstone."" -- Dossie Easton, Author of The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy. "How would you live and love if society, religion, and the media weren't constantly "shoulding" all over you?" -- Jenny Block " Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson is an insightful read into the different types of sexual and romantic relationships, It debunks the myths that tell us there is one type that works for everyone. It also imparts wisdom on how to navigate relationships for whichever type you find yourself in. I found this book to be a great starter guide for designing relationships that work for you." -Dr. Martha Tara Lee, author of Love, Sex and Everything In Between From the foreword: " Designer Relationships is a guidebook for these changing times and what is now available to anyone with a computer, a modicum of curiosity, and the willingness to take a risk and explore." -Ken Haslam, founder, Polyamory Archives of the Kinesy Institute "I would highly recommend Designer Relationships to any couple who wants to explore opening up and wants to strengthen their relationship." -Shervon Laurice, MS, LCPC, LPC, "Michaels and Johnson's latest book on Designer Relationships takes my book, The New Monogamy one step further, past communication skills about monogamy agreements and into new ways to be transparent about all types of revolutionary forms of commitment that will take us forward into the 21st Century. Where my book left off, theirs continues and includes all the information any couple could ever want or need to create loving, open partnerships. Where most books only offer history and data, Mark and Patricia give practical advice and ground rules for trust, empathy and intimacy for collaborative non-monogamous relationship. We all need a book like this that integrates good tips and techniques and the words to define what we want from a partner; the freedom to choose. Whatever you are looking for, it is in this book. Written by a couple who really love one another and are committed to their work, this book comes at the perfect time, I am convinced it will help a lot of people."-Dr. Tammy Nelson, Author of The New Monogamy and Getting the Sex You Want "Thoughtful, honest and powerful! Reading this book is like rubbing a lamp to get your own Genie - but instead of magic, you'll get practical guidance on how to create the relationship that's ideal for you. Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson speak from experience, lead from the heart, and open a space for true sexual freedom."-- Ricci Joy Levy, Executive Director, The Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance "Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels explore far beyond one-size-fits-all coupling to a rainbow of choices, showing us all that the only ways our relationships are supposed to be are the ways we choose with one beautifully stated guideline: "Keep kindness as your touchstone.""-- Dossie Easton, Author of The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy. "How would you live and love if society, religion, and the media weren't constantly "shoulding" all over you?" -- Jenny Block "Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson is an insightful read into the different types of sexual and romantic relationships, It debunks the myths that tell us there is one type that works for everyone. It also imparts wisdom on how to navigate relationships for whichever type you find yourself in. I found this book to be a great starter guide for designing relationships that work for you."-Dr. Martha Tara Lee, author of Love, Sex and Everything In Between "I would highly recommend Designer Relationships to any couple who wants to explore opening up and wants to strengthen their relationship."-Shervon Laurice, MS, LCPC, LPC From the foreword: "Designer Relationships is a guidebook for these changing times and what is now available to anyone with a computer, a modicum of curiosity, and the willingness to take a risk and explore." -Ken Haslam, founder, Polyamory Archives of the Kinsey Institute, "Michaels and Johnson's latest book on Designer Relationships takes my book, The New Monogamy one step further, past communication skills about monogamy agreements and into new ways to be transparent about all types of revolutionary forms of commitment that will take us forward into the 21st Century. Where my book left off, theirs continues and includes all the information any couple could ever want or need to create loving, open partnerships. Where most books only offer history and data, Mark and Patricia give practical advice and ground rules for trust, empathy and intimacy for collaborative non-monogamous relationship. We all need a book like this that integrates good tips and techniques and the words to define what we want from a partner; the freedom to choose. Whatever you are looking for, it is in this book. Written by a couple who really love one another and are committed to their work, this book comes at the perfect time, I am convinced it will help a lot of people." 'e"Dr. Tammy Nelson, Author of The New Monogamy and Getting the Sex You Want 'eoeDesigner Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson is an insightful read into the different types of sexual and romantic relationships, It debunks the myths that tell us there is one type that works for everyone. It also imparts wisdom on how to navigate relationships for whichever type you find yourself in. I found this book to be a great starter guide for designing relationships that work for you." 'e"Dr. Martha Tara Lee, author of From the foreword: "We are living in an era of major change in terms of how we practice sex, love, and relationship. Thanks to the Internet, whole communities now exist that honor a variety of non-monogamous relationship structures'e"'e"polyamory, swinging, and other alternative arrangements. Finding people and places to explore this wide variety of sexual and romantic options can now be done with ease, something that was hard to imagine a few decades ago. The novel 50 Shades of Grey has led millions into a consideration of adding kink and BDSM into their intimate repertoire. Marriages have been failing at about a 50% rate for many years. Many older people find themselves suddenly single, due to divorce or the death of a partner, in a cyber world of online dating and a social acceptance of a new sexuality that is light years away from how they grew up. Many younger people, who may have been raised by divorced parents, are actively seeking healthier alternatives. Times are changing. Designer Relationships is a guidebook for these changing times and what is now available to anyone with a computer, a modicum of curiosity, and the willingness to take a risk and explore." 'e"Ken Haslam, founder Polyamory Archives of the Kinesy Institute, "Michaels and Johnson's latest book on Designer Relationships takes my book, The New Monogamy one step further, past communication skills about monogamy agreements and into new ways to be transparent about all types of revolutionary forms of commitment that will take us forward into the 21st Century. Where my book left off, theirs continues and includes all the information any couple could ever want or need to create loving, open partnerships. Where most books only offer history and data, Mark and Patricia give practical advice and ground rules for trust, empathy and intimacy for collaborative non-monogamous relationship. We all need a book like this that integrates good tips and techniques and the words to define what we want from a partner; the freedom to choose. Whatever you are looking for, it is in this book. Written by a couple who really love one another and are committed to their work, this book comes at the perfect time, I am convinced it will help a lot of people." 'e"Dr. Tammy Nelson, Author of The New Monogamy and Getting the Sex You Want 'eoeDesigner Relationships: A Guide to Happy Monogamy, Positive Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson is an insightful read into the different types of sexual and romantic relationships, It debunks the myths that tell us there is one type that works for everyone. It also imparts wisdom on how to navigate relationships for whichever type you find yourself in. I found this book to be a great starter guide for designing relationships that work for you." 'e"Dr. Martha Tara Lee, author of From the foreword: "We are living in an era of major change in terms of how we practice sex, love, and relationship. Thanks to the Internet, whole communities now exist that honor a variety of non-monogamous relationship structures'e"'e"polyamory, swinging, and other alternative arrangements. Finding people and places to explore this wide variety of sexual and romantic options can now be done with ease, something that was hard to imagine a few decades ago. The novel 50 Shades of Grey has led millions into a consideration of adding kink and BDSM into their intimate repertoire. Marriages have been failing at about a 50% rate for many years. Many older people find themselves suddenly single, due to divorce or the death of a partner, in a cyber world of online dating and a social acceptance of a new sexuality that is light years away from how they grew up. Many younger people, who may have been raised by divorced parents, are actively seeking healthier alternatives. Times are changing. Designer Relationships is a guidebook for these changing times and what is now available to anyone with a computer, a modicum of curiosity, and the willingness to take a risk and explore." 'e"Ken Haslam, founder Polyamory Archives of the Kinesy Institute "I have been following Mark and Patricia'e(tm)s work since I took my first workshop with them eight years ago. Their care and attention to how individuals connect with one another face to face is impressive. That same care and attention is conveyed in each of their written works. As a therapist, over the years I have recommended their books in my work with couples and individual clients. In these modern times, people are becoming more self-aware and they want more from their relationships. Mark and Patricia'e(tm)s latest work, Designer Relationships, is an easily read guide for any individual or couple looking to experience connection, passion and relationships in ways that step outside of the conventional norms. I would highly recommend Designer Relationships to any couple who wants to explore opening up and wants to strengthen their relationship." 'e"Shervon Laurice, MS, LCPC, LPC, From the foreword: "We are living in an era of major change in terms of how we practice sex, love, and relationship. Thanks to the Internet, whole communities now exist that honor a variety of non-monogamous relationship structures--polyamory, swinging, and other alternative arrangements. Finding people and places to explore this wide variety of sexual and romantic options can now be done with ease, something that was hard to imagine a few decades ago. The novel 50 Shades of Grey has led millions into a consideration of adding kink and BDSM into their intimate repertoire. Marriages have been failing at about a 50% rate for many years. Many older people find themselves suddenly single, due to divorce or the death of a partner, in a cyber world of online dating and a social acceptance of a new sexuality that is light years away from how they grew up. Many younger people, who may have been raised by divorced parents, are actively seeking healthier alternatives. Times are changing. Designer Relationships is a guidebook for these changing times and what is now available to anyone with a computer, a modicum of curiosity, and the willingness to take a risk and explore." -Ken Haslam, founder Polyamory Archives of the Kinesy Institute
Synopsis
Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower people with the opportunity to develop partnerships based on their own sexualities, understandings, and agreements. This makes it possible to create what Kenneth Haslam, founder of the Kinsey Institute's Polyamory Archive, has called "designer relationships." Designer relationships may encompass: people who bond emotionally but not sexually; people who agree to be non-exclusive; single people who have occasional lovers or friends with benefits; multiple partner configurations where long-term bonds exist among all or some; partnerships in which people are kinky and that make room to explore kink. The possibilities are limitless, and thinking about a partnership as something people can craft allows for flexibility and change. Relationships can open and close or have varying degrees and kinds of openness as circumstances demand. In the context of a designer relationship, decisions are made mutually, consciously, and deliberately. Best-selling authors and nationally known relationship experts Patricia Johnson and Mark A. Michaels are exemplars of this life choice, and have studied polyamory for over 20 years. This book explains exactly how you and your loved ones can design your own life and love., Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower people with the opportunity to develop partnerships based on their own sexualities, understandings, and agreements. This makes it possible to create what Kenneth Haslam, founder of the Kinsey Institute's Polyamory Archive, has called 'designer relationships. ' Designer relationships may encompass: people who bond emotionally but not sexually; people who agree to be non-exclusive; single people who have occasional lovers or friends with benefits; multiple partner configurations where long-term bonds exist among all or some; partnerships in which people are kinky and that make room to explore kink. The possibilities are limitless, and thinking about a partnership as something people can craft allows for flexibility and change. Relationships can open and close or have varying degrees and kinds of openness as circumstances demand. In the context of a designer relationship, decisions are made mutually, consciously, and deliberately. Best-selling authors and nationally known relationship experts Patricia Johnson and Mark A. Michaels are exemplars of this life choice, and have studied polyamory for over 20 years. This book explains exactly how you and your loved ones can design your own life and love.
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- m***m (2297)- Feedback left by buyer.Past 6 monthsVerified purchaseI’m thrilled with my recent purchase . The website was user-friendly, and the product descriptions were accurate. Customer service was prompt and helpful, answering all my questions. My order arrived quickly, well-packaged, and the product exceeded my expectations in quality. I’m impressed with the attention to detail and the overall experience. I’ll definitely shop here again and highly recommend from this seller to others. Thank you for a fantastic experience!
- a***n (43)- Feedback left by buyer.Past 6 monthsVerified purchaseMistakenly ordered a paperback that I thought was a hardcover, not sellers fault; it was described properly on the listing. Seller still processed a refund the day I went to return the item and let me keep the item anyway. A+++ service. Book arrived quickly in great condition and for a great price. Thank you so much! Amazing seller!
- n***c (94)- Feedback left by buyer.Past 6 monthsVerified purchaseseller was communicative about my shipment, media mail took a while and tracking wasn't updated frequently, but seller communicated to me very quickly on status. the item came new and wrapped as described, though the packaging in it was packed wasn't sturdy and falling apart when it got to me.